Caregivers Retreat

About 6 weeks ago, my America’s Fund case manager (who I also consider a friend), contacted me regarding an upcoming caregiver’s retreat in Florida. I couldn’t reply back fast enough to ask her to sign me up. I don’t miss being at Walter Reed, but I miss the kinship I felt with the other caregivers during our time there. The Semper Fi Fund/America’s Fund (SFF/AF) holds various activities specifically for caregivers and I really enjoyed the Ladies Night Out dinners that I attended (Caregivers Night Out). There are a lot of organizations out there that help and encourage wounded veterans which is awesome, but most of them are specifically and solely for the veteran and tend to ignore the families. Don’t get me wrong, I think our wounded veterans deserve the attention and appreciation, but when a service member is injured, the injury may only touch them, but it effects the entire family in various ways. My son was 3 ½ when Justin was injured. He’s not the same kid as he was 2 years ago. I’m not the same person that I was 2 years ago. Physically, the past 2 years have been harder on Justin, but emotionally, I think it’s been harder on me because I’m a more emotional person in general. Just recently, I’ve come to a degree of acceptance with things to see that June 9, 2013 wasn’t the end, but a beginning of a new type of journey. Anyway, that’s another subject for another blog…back to the retreat. After I responded to Stephanie, she sent me more details about the retreat. It would be taking place at a beach side resort in St. Pete Beach, on the west coast of Florida near Tampa. Everyone would arrive on the Friday and head home on Sunday. The closer it got to the retreat, the more excited I got. I needed some time to myself to relax and regroup.

Then came the day of the retreat. Having gone to school in the Tampa area, I knew how bad I-4 traffic can get on a Friday afternoon. I decided to leave in the morning (the first event of the retreat wasn’t until 6 pm) and visit with some friends who are like family to me that live in Tampa before heading to the resort. Upon arriving at the Don CeSar Hotel, I checked in and was greeted by four wonderful SFF/AF case managers who put a lot of time into planning such a wonderful weekend for us. I settled into my room and then headed over to the spa to receive my deep tissue massage. Talk about a great way to start the weekend. Then I took a walk on the beach which got me even more relaxed. Being on/near/in the water is my happy place.

Around 6 pm, everyone started arriving at the Sunset Pavilion for some social time and dinner. One of my friends from Walter Reed was able to come on the retreat, and it was great to catch up with her and to meet the other ladies. There were around 40 of us on the retreat. Some were spouses, others mothers caring for an adult son or daughter, and a fiancé or two. Many of the spouses, like me, are also raising children in addition to being a caregiver to their husband. While at dinner, the sun began to set (the Sunset Pavilion has an excellent view), so we all hurried out to the beach (about 10 feet from the outdoor patio where we were eating dinner) to get a group shot with the sunset in the background and another shot with the hotel in the background. It was so beautiful watching the sun set over the water. After dinner, some people went out, others hit the hot tub, and some went back to the rooms to rest up for the next day.

Saturday was a day packed with activities to help us relax and de-stress. We started the day bright and early with yoga on the beach at 8 am. Those of you who know me know that I am so not a morning person and do not have the best balance ever. I put forth a good effort, but my favorite poses were the resting ones that nearly put me back to sleep. Lol Then came a delicious breakfast on the pavilion. After breakfast, we headed upstairs to the conference room for some classes. The first one was on managing stress. The lady who spoke asked some very thought provoking questions that hit home to probably all of us. It was a bit emotional for some to voice their struggles and hear others going through the exact same thing. The next class was a bit lighter. It was how to art journal. It was interesting and kind of fun, but I think I’ll stick to writing. My art skills leave much to be desired. Lol 

Then we took a break for lunch which was very tasty. After lunch, we painted wine glasses. Some of the ladies were very artistic and their glasses looked really cool. Mine…well, it’s colorful. While I’m not especially talented in that area, it was fun to try something that I normally wouldn’t. As with the art journals, my glass is no masterpiece, but laughing and chatting with the other ladies while making my attempt at art was pretty relaxing.

The last schedule activity of the afternoon was stretching techniques. Once again, the resting positions nearly put me to sleep (but that says I was really relaxed, right?). Some of the stretches felt really good to work the kinks out of my shoulders and neck. I need to remember to do those at home when I’m sitting for a while. After the classes were done, I hit the beach again. While I was standing in the water, about a dozen stingrays swam past me. It was pretty cool. I don’t think I’ve ever seen stingrays in the wild before.

Then came time to head to downtown St. Pete for some shopping and dinner. On the bus, they gave us each a Visa gift card with the instructions to spend it on ourselves. That may sound like an easy thing, but it’s really not. When I go shopping, I see something and my first thoughts are “Corey would like this” or “Justin would like that” or “my mom would like this”. When I shop for myself, it’s usually necessities like clothes, shoes, etc. I went through many shops, but most were kind of artsy and I didn’t really see much that caught my eye, but there was one thing that just fascinated me. It was called Exotic Sands. Just watching the sand swirl and fall in different patterns each time I flipped it was kind of soothing, so I decided to get it because it fit with the weekend as a whole. Then came another delicious meal before heading back to the hotel. Once we got back, I decided to hit the hot tub and relax with the other ladies a bit before turning in for the night.

 My Exotic Sands thing

Sunday morning, we had a nice farewell breakfast. Many of us exchanged contact information or looked each other up on Facebook so that we could keep in touch. It was sad to see the weekend come to a close. I hope that someday, I can meet up with my new friends because I’d love to spend more time getting to know them. I’m so thankful that SFF/AF brought us all together to share and learn from each other. I’m also thankful that I drove to the retreat because many of the ladies who flew there had trouble fitting all the goodies that SFF/AF spoiled us with in their suitcases. If I could change anything about the weekend, it would be to add more hours to the days because time just flew by way too fast with all the fun we were having. One thing that we heard in one of the classes was that depression happens when you focus too much on the past and anxiety when you focus too much on the future. Sometimes you just have to focus on the present. I know I’m guilty of not just focusing on the past but on the way I wanted the future to be before June 9, 2013 happened. Sometimes I do get anxious thinking about the future and about what things will be like when Justin is old and not as independent. I often have to remind myself to trust God for the future because worrying about it won’t change anything. I have to remind myself not just to live in the present and enjoy the blessings that God has given me, but also to live for eternity. The difficulties of life are so short…though while I’m going through them, sometimes they seem never ending. But God can use those trials to bring about something amazing in the long run. To sum it all up, I came away from the weekend with a lot of things to think about, some tips and things to try to help manage stress, a heart that was full of thankfulness, and a mind that felt relaxed and refreshed. Not bad for just one full day and two partial days. Thank you, Semper Fi Fund/America’s Fund for caring for caregivers and making us feel so special and appreciated!

Christmas - a time for giving

Christmas will be here before we know it (no, I’m not skipping over Thanksgiving), and a lot of times near Christmas, people look for different charities to donate to. I’ve learned over the past 17 months that non-profits are not created equally. I’m not going to name names, but many “non-profits” have high paid CEOs and have a lot of the money donated go toward overhead costs and advertising. I can’t speak for other causes, but I can tell you which non-profits do the most to actually help wounded veterans. Right now some of them have special projects going on for the Christmas season to help families of wounded vets. This is by no means a full list of all the wonderful non-profits who do so much good, but here are a handful of once that have personally helped us or friends of ours. These are in no particular order, and I'm telling you about them, not to help our family personally, but to help the many other families of wounded warriors.

Semper Fi Fund/America’s Fund https://semperfifund.org/match/

Every weekday, rain or shine, people from this organization go from room to room on the inpatient ward making sure that needs are met, not only for the wounded service member, but also his/her family and friends who are there to visit. They do special outings to boost morale of caregivers. They help with the purchase of vehicles to be adapted and purchase all-terrain wheelchairs to assist with mobility for outdoor type sports. They help with expenses for moving, house needs, travel expenses, and so much more. Right now through the end of the year, every dollar donated will be matched by the Bob and Renee Parsons Foundation.

Operation Ward 57 http://www.operationward57.org/holiday2014/

Ward 57 was the inpatient wounded warrior floor at the old Walter Reed before it was combined with the Navy hospital in Bethesda. They do a lot to make sure needs are met for both the inpatient and outpatient residents at Walter Reed (and other places). They’ve collect everything from back massagers to waffle makes and whole lot more. They also do a lot to bring attention and educated on some of the emotional and mental issues that many service members face. They have someone who will answer their phone 24/7 if they need to talk or get advice, not for recognition, but because they truly care and want to help. Right now they have a program where they match sponsors with wounded warrior families to help the WW families have a better Christmas.

Project Healing Waters Fly Fishing http://www.projecthealingwaters.org/

This organization has been a huge help to Justin. He loves to be outdoors, and they have provided him with a way to be outdoors and get back into one of his favorite hobbies. But it’s not just about the fishing. A group of their volunteers comes out to Walter Reed (and other military hospitals and VA hospitals and clinics all over the country) weekly to teach fly tying and casting, but while doing that, they build relationships with the wounded vets and their families. They teach fly fishing and boost morale and are an overall encouragement while doing it.

Heroes Haven http://heroeshaven.org/

This is a smaller non-profit run through a local American Legion post on the eastern shore of Maryland. Even though their reach isn’t as big as other groups, the impact they make on those who they reach is huge. They got Justin out hunting for the first time post-injury and made us part of their community. They gave us a home away from home when we needed to get away from the hospital and have become part of our family’s support system.

Luke’s Wings http://www.lukeswings.org/

We personally have not flown using the Luke’s Wings program because when we travel, we typically have driven for various reasons, but many of my friends have benefitted greatly from this awesome program. They recognize the need to reunite wounded warriors with their family and friends. If you are a frequent flier and have extra miles, you can donate them. Now through the end of November, for every Delta mile donated, Delta will match the donation. All these miles will be used to help wounded warriors be with their families for Christmas.

Gary Sinise Foundation http://www.garysinisefoundation.org/

Many of you have probably seen the movie Forrest Gump. One of the characters in the movie was Lt. Dan, played by Gary Sinise (also known for playing the part of Mac Taylor on CSI: NY). The Lt. Dan character was injured in Vietnam and lost both legs, and while researching the part, Gary Sinise felt moved to start helping wounded veterans by starting the Gary Sinise Foundation and to start up a cover band called the Lt. Dan Band that would tour military bases and hospitals around the world to boost morale. Now that CSI: NY has run its course, he is working full time in his work helping service members and veterans. Recently, his foundation gave a “smart house” that is fully adapted to help one of our Walter Reed friends (one of only a handful of quadruple amputees who survived). He may not have served in the military (in real life), but he has done so much to serve those who have served/are serving.

Yellow Ribbon Fund http://www.yellowribbonfund.org/

When a service member is injured, the military will pay for 3 family members to be by their side while they are inpatient initially. The Yellow Ribbon Fund helps with lodging for additional family members to come visit for a few days, whether the person is inpatient or outpatient. They help with caregiver resources and retreats. They provided a much needed playground next to the wounded warrior living residence on the hospital complex. They help with rental cars and taxi vouchers to help with transportation (since many of us flew up to the area and were without personal transportation for a while). Many of their volunteers are caregivers themselves, so they have a firsthand knowledge of the needs of caregivers.

The Independence Fund http://www.independencefund.org/

One of the most popular things this organization does is give all-terrain wheelchairs to wounded veterans. These are a huge help to people with limited mobility to enjoy hobbies that they wouldn’t be able to access in a normal wheelchair. The Indy Fund also teams up with other organizations to help with transportation and housing needs for wounded veterans. They’ve provided hand bikes for wounded vets without legs or with leg problems who are unable to use a traditional bicycles (for some these hand bikes are the main form of exercise that these men and women are able to physically do to stay healthy).

The Space Coast Paratroopers Association https://www.facebook.com/SpaceCoastParatroopersAssociation

For those in central Florida, this organization is teaming up with the city of Palm Bay to provide (adapted if needed) homes to wounded veterans. These houses are foreclosures and need a bit of work to spruce them up and adapt if needed. A lot of the work is done by volunteers or businesses volunteering their skills, and a lot of the materials are donated. Even if you can’t afford to purchase materials or give money, the gift of time in helping fix up these house is greatly appreciated. They post on their Facebook page where/when the volunteer opportunities are. If nothing else, check out and “like” their page so you can see the awesome job their doing and watch the transformations of these houses.

Treats 4 Our Troops https://www.facebook.com/notes/treats-4-our-troops/t4ot-official-holiday-collection-and-packing-guidelines-revised-september-2014/10150099961180620?fref=nf

Do you have any extra candy from Halloween that you don’t want to rot your children’s’ teeth? This organization will help you send it to troops who are deployed or to wounded warriors who are inpatient at Walter Reed. Check out their page for more information.

Amazon Smile http://smile.amazon.com/gp/charity/pd.html/ref=smi_se_saas_pd_pd

If you’re like my family and like the ease of online shopping, you probably have ordered from Amazon. They started a program Amazon Smile where you can sign up (for free) and for every dollar you spend, they donate (at no extra cost to you) .5% to the charity of your choice. Yeah, .5% isn’t a lot – 50 cents for every $100 spent, but it adds up and it requires no effort or cost to you, so why not sign up? Many of the non-profits I’ve already talked about are registered in this program and they can benefit from shopping that you were already planning on doing. Once you pick an organization, you can change it whenever, and however many times you want, so if you want to support one organization for 6 months, and then switch it up, you can. There are so many wonderful organizations to choose from that it’s difficult to choose just one.

Ladies Night Out - a Much Needed Break for Caregivers

When Justin deployed the first time, we were engaged. I was in my hometown and surrounded by friends, but sometimes I felt very alone because none of the people I was regularly around really understood what I was going through. Some very sweet, well-meaning people said some things that really bothered me at times. I knew they didn’t mean any harm, but it just showed how clueless they were. I still love them and am thankful for the friendships and the support they’ve shown me over the years. Just because they didn’t really understand doesn’t mean we couldn’t be friends. They probably went through plenty of things that I had no clue about.

During Justin’s second deployment, I was scared. I knew I would be in a foreign country raising a baby on my own. Once the soldiers deployed, I formed a close bond with some of the other wives. We were going through the same (or similar) circumstances and understood each other. We helped each other get through a year without our husbands. I missed my friends and family back home, but my Army wife friends became like family to me. It was very different from the first deployment, but I learned so much from both.

As you probably know by now, Justin’s third deployment was nothing like I expected it to be. I had the best of both worlds for this one. I lived close enough to family that I could visit often. I also had Army wife friends nearby (though not quite the walking distance close as in Germany). This was our third time around, and I figured it would be similar to the other two, except shorter. Little did I know how much shorter it would end up being. Now I find myself in a very different, strange situation. With three deployments and after meeting quite a few soldiers and their families, I had never been friends and had never met anyone who was seriously injured in combat. Since Justin was injured, I’ve had to learn a new language (medical terms specific to amputees and various medication) and a new set of skills with caring for Justin and his increased needs. Seriously, the military needs to get with it. I deserve some sort of certificate for all my new knowledge and skills. Lol I’ve even given injections (much to Justin’s dismay).

I say all that as to background for the main point of this post. A couple nights ago, I attended my third ladies night out sponsored by the America’s Fund/Semper Fi Fund. Some of the wonderful ladies involved in this organization come over to Walter Reed, pick us up, drive us to the restaurant, treat us to a relaxing evening of food and fun, and then return us to Walter Reed. It’s more than just a dinner though. It’s a chance to connect with ladies who are going through similar circumstances. It’s hard to socialize during the week with appointments and in many cases, caring for both a spouse and kid(s) (or if the caregiver is a mother, their son/daughter and possibly grandkid), and weekends are hit and miss as well. These nights out are rare opportunities for the spouses, mothers, sisters, friends, etc. who have dropped everything to care for a loved one to leave the responsibilities and stresses behind and just be ourselves. We swap stories and understand the emotions that came when we got that call saying that our loved one was injured in ways that I pray that other people I know will never understand firsthand. At my table this time, there was one mother whose son was seriously injured in a motorcycle accident (other driver was at fault), a woman who is here to help her sister-in-law, and two of us who are here to help our husbands recover while raising a child. Every woman in the room had a story as to what events brought them here, but all of us are here because we love someone who needs our help. Some are due to injury and others have various medical conditions that need someone to help around the house and with appointments. All are here because they care for someone in the military even if the person wasn’t combat wounded. So many of the organizations and events are specifically for the service member with family as an add on. It’s really nice and means a lot to have a night specifically to address a real need for caregivers – a break. I love my husband and son with all my heart, but sometimes I need some time away from them and that’s hard to do in a tiny little apartment around each other all day every day. I always get back from these events feeling refreshed, very full from the delicious food, and excited for the next one. I spent the evening laughing and enjoying great company. Some of the conversations are serious as our situations are serious, but far more laughs through the course of the night. I probably speak for all the ladies who attend these dinners in saying that the night goes by way too quickly and we always hate to see it come to an end.

Ladies night out is just one of the many ways that the America’s Fund/Semper Fi Fund step up to help not just the injured service members, but their families as well. (Semper Fi Fund is the main program to help injured Marines, and more recently they started a sub-program called the America’s Fund to help all service members regardless of the branch.) They helped us buy a truck to be adapted so that Justin could drive it with hand controls (our other vehicles have over 100,000 miles, so we needed something reliable that would last to help Justin). They’ve helped with expenses for various family members come up to visit which has been a huge help to us when Justin’s had to be inpatient and we needed help with Corey. Someone from their organization is at the hospital every day during the week visiting the rooms of the ones that are inpatient to encourage them and make sure their needs and the needs of their families are met, and that doesn’t stop when they are discharged. They cheer with us when good things happen, when goals are achieved, and they encourage us when there are setbacks. If I were asked to name the non-profits that have helped us the most over the past year (not just financially, but the whole picture), the America’s Fund would be in the top 3…and those top 3 are in a three way tie. Each has helped us in very different ways and it would be difficult to rate them because they’re all so awesome. I will always be grateful for these organizations and the people that take a hands-on approach to helping our nation’s wounded veterans. I pray that these awesome people in these organizations are blessed for the many ways they have been a blessing to my family and other families at Walter Reed and other military medical facilities all over the country.

A Special Thank You to People Who Make a Difference

The past 8 months have been quite a journey. It’s had its ups and downs alone the way. Thankfully we haven’t been alone down this road. We’ve had God with us even before Justin was injured and He hasn’t left our sides. We’ve had friends and family praying for us, encouraging us, and caring for us. We’ve also been helped by quite a few non-profit groups…most of which we had never heard of until coming to Walter Reed. I’d like to tell you about some of them. There are so many more that I can’t possibly mention or remember them all, so I’m just going to mention the ones that have personally helped us. Quite a few groups regularly make rounds bringing goodies to our building and/or meals to the wounded warrior floor in the hospital. I’ve appreciated them all even if I don’t remember their names. The ones I’m about to tell you about are in no specific order, and if you would like more information about any of them, feel free to ask me or “like” their facebook pages. They are all wonderful organizations with a heart for healing our nation’s wounded service members.

The first group of people is the wonderful people who make the Quilts of Valor. Justin received two of these quilts when he was in Afghanistan and has received a third one since arriving here. These quilts have brought us much warmth and comfort during this time. They are beautiful and I know there was a lot of love for our service members that went into them. If you are a quilter and would like to know more about how to get involved, I can give you some more information about how to help our wounded men and women.

The group that came to see Justin while he was in Germany was the Wounded Warrior Project. This group is probably the most well-known due to their commercials and t-shirts. I personally think they could do a lot more good if they functioned on less overhead costs, but they do a good work in helping the wounded and bringing attention to them so that they aren’t forgotten. They have given us bags, clothes (including socks which gave us a laugh), and hygiene items. They visited Justin regularly when he was inpatient and brought milkshakes. One of the regulars at Walter Reed is also a wounded warrior missing both of his legs…though you wouldn’t know it unless he’s wearing shorts. He’s walking, living proof that there’s a light at the end of this tunnel.

The group that we’ve probably had the most interaction with is Project Healing Waters Fly Fishing. I can’t say enough good about this group. One of Justin’s favorite hobbies has always been fishing. When he was injured, he thought he’d have to wait a long time to get back into fishing. Then he heard about Project Healing Waters. He was fishing in a tournament a little over two months post-injury. They come weekly to Walter Reed to teach the wounded warriors more about fly fishing, practice casting, making fishing flies, and overall being such an encouragement. Some of the trips, Justin’s gone on by himself and some have been with our whole family. Corey has come to love fly fishing from the trips he’s been on. They also played a part in the hunting trip Justin and I went on in Texas. Everyone we have met through this program has been so nice to us and we are thankful for them and the work they do.

I mentioned America’s Fund/Semper Fi Fund recently in one of my statues. They do so much to help not just the wounded warriors, but also their families. Some of their people go room-to-room to visit the wounded while they’re inpatient. They help out families financially so that visit a loved one when they’re in the hospital isn’t a hardship. They give out jackets and blankets to the adults and teddy bears to the kids. They help out with child care costs, pet costs, help alongside the VA to assist wounded warriors in purchasing new vehicles, help give back the gift of mobility by giving track chairs (the special chairs with the tank treads), and so much more. They also do so much for the caregivers to help keep our morale up.

Operation Ward 57 is named after the original wounded warrior ward in the old Walter Reed that was located in D.C. Now the wounded warriors are on the 4th floor, but I personally think Ward 57 sounds a lot cooler than Operation 4th Floor of building 10. Most of our interaction with them was on the inpatient side. When Justin got to Walter Reed, he was in no condition to be up and about, much less to deal with things like going to the barber shop. Operation Ward 57 brought the barber shop to him. They regularly bring in people to cut hair on the wounded warrior floor. For guys like Justin who have sported military regulation haircuts for so long, they feel not quite themselves when their hair gets too long, and the awesome people from Ward 57 made Justin feel more like himself. They also come around and have special events in the hospital like ice cream sundaes which may seem like a simple thing, but it really means a lot to the families on the 4th floor.

Heroes Haven is a small non-profit out of Sharptown, MD. Most of the people who run it are either in the American Legion or Sons of the American Legion. They’re the ones who helped Justin go on his first hunting trip post-injury. They welcomed our family and the other two participants into town with a police and motorcycle escort through a couple small towns where people lined the streets waving and holding flags and signs. They welcomed us into their town and into their homes and treated us like family.

Our family did not stay in the Fisher House, but we were helped by one of their programs - Hero Miles. The Fisher houses help families have a place to stay free of cost while their loved one is undergoing care at a military facility. For a smaller family like ours, the Navy Lodge and now building 62 are sufficient, but for larger families or cases where extended family stays for longer periods of time, the Fisher Houses provide a place for them to feel at home. The Fisher House Foundation also stepped up during the government shutdown to help families of soldiers killed in action with their expenses. When Justin was injured, the Army travel people booked me a flight to Walter Reed. I didn’t have either of our vehicles up here which at first wasn’t as big of a deal, but once Justin was discharged, we wanted to venture off the hospital complex more. To get our vehicle, we needed to fly back to Georgia to get it. This is where Hero Miles helped out. People donate their unused frequent flyer miles and Hero Miles uses them to pay for flights for the wounded warriors and family/friends. For us, it was to fly back home briefly. For others, it’s the only way family can afford to come visit.

The Yellow Ribbon Fund does so much to help wounded warriors and their families. One way that they helped us was with their taxi voucher program. Before we had our vehicle up here, there were times where we wanted to get out or needed a ride to the airport. The Yellow Ribbon Fund provides taxi vouchers so that we’re able to get around for free. They also provide special outings and services for caregivers. On holidays, they bring gifts for the wounded and their caregivers.

Active Heroes isn’t a group that makes rounds at Walter Reed, but they definitely deserve mention. They organized a golf benefit for us last month and have another schedule for later this year. The proceeds all go into a fund that is setup for long term assistance or for help with immediate specific expenses. This is just one of the programs they have going. Another that is in the works is a retreat for wounded warriors and their families. They have purchased the land and are working on building it. I’ve enjoyed seeing the pictures they’ve posted on their facebook page. It looks like such a peaceful place that will be enjoyed by so many.

Operation Homefront is an organization that I’m not as familiar with, but I still appreciate them and what they do. On Valentine’s Day, I heard a knock at our door. When I got to the door, nobody was there, but at my feet was a nice bag filled with gifts for me. There was a bag at every door on our hall. Out of curiosity, I looked up the bag since it was a name brand, and I’d estimate they spent over $100 on each room. The majority of the caregivers around here are women – wives, mothers, sisters, other female family members, or friends. Most are probably like us where it’s rare for the wounded warrior to go anywhere without the caregiver, so it’s hard to buy surprise gifts. It was really nice of Operation Homefront to surprise the caregivers (and I know that Yellow Ribbon Fund has done similar on the inpatient side of the hospital) on Valentine’s Day.

Justin and I are used to being the ones that people call when they need help. We’re not used to being the ones that need help, but right now we find ourselves being the recipient of the help of these wonderful, generous groups/people. I don’t know how to thank them enough for what they’ve done and are still doing for our family. The best way I can think of right now to show my appreciation is by recognizing them and getting their names out there. If you’re reading this and you’re a part of one of these or any other organization that helps our veterans – both the wounded and the ones who were more fortunate – I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all you do! You truly are making a difference in lives.